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	<title>Comments on: Small Changes to Gender, Role and D/s Relationship Status</title>
	<link>http://sexualdeviants20.com/2008/03/21/small-changes-to-gender-role-and-ds-relationship-status/</link>
	<description>We are sexual deviants living in a web 2.0 world.  When we are not hard at work building a fetish community at &#60;a href="http://friendswithfetishes.com"&#62;FriendsWithFetishes.com&#60;/a&#62; we are spending our time discussing, thinking and dreaming about fetishes, bondage, bdsm and whatever else comes to mind.</description>
	<pubDate>Sun, 20 May 2012 06:05:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: PepperGirl1986</title>
		<link>http://sexualdeviants20.com/2008/03/21/small-changes-to-gender-role-and-ds-relationship-status/#comment-79</link>
		<dc:creator>PepperGirl1986</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2008 23:44:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;what about just ''in a relationship//seeing someone''&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;i am not really owned, but i'm not single either.  i am seeing a master, but i don't consider myself under his protection, per se.  i'm going to get collared eventually, but i don't consider myself 'under consideration'.  i'm just seeing him, and in a relationship with him.  does that make sense?&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;some sort of halfway mark between owned and collared and unowned would be nice.&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>what about just &#8221;in a relationship//seeing someone&#8221;</p>

<p>i am not really owned, but i&#8217;m not single either.  i am seeing a master, but i don&#8217;t consider myself under his protection, per se.  i&#8217;m going to get collared eventually, but i don&#8217;t consider myself &#8216;under consideration&#8217;.  i&#8217;m just seeing him, and in a relationship with him.  does that make sense?</p>

<p>some sort of halfway mark between owned and collared and unowned would be nice.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Angel</title>
		<link>http://sexualdeviants20.com/2008/03/21/small-changes-to-gender-role-and-ds-relationship-status/#comment-76</link>
		<dc:creator>Angel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2008 22:19:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://sexualdeviants20.com/2008/03/21/small-changes-to-gender-role-and-ds-relationship-status/#comment-76</guid>
		<description>&lt;p&gt;Thanks for your help, John! :)&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your help, John! :)</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: JohnBaku</title>
		<link>http://sexualdeviants20.com/2008/03/21/small-changes-to-gender-role-and-ds-relationship-status/#comment-72</link>
		<dc:creator>JohnBaku</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2008 21:29:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://sexualdeviants20.com/2008/03/21/small-changes-to-gender-role-and-ds-relationship-status/#comment-72</guid>
		<description>&lt;p&gt;Thanks for bring this up... it is not that you can't do what you want on the site it is just that the interface must not be intuitive enough... that is my fault!&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;To unset your relationship status go to edit (your profile) and for the pulldown menu for the D/s relationship status just set it to "(select your D/s relationship status)".  This will unset it.&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for bring this up&#8230; it is not that you can&#8217;t do what you want on the site it is just that the interface must not be intuitive enough&#8230; that is my fault!</p>

<p>To unset your relationship status go to edit (your profile) and for the pulldown menu for the D/s relationship status just set it to &#8220;(select your D/s relationship status)&#8221;.  This will unset it.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Angel</title>
		<link>http://sexualdeviants20.com/2008/03/21/small-changes-to-gender-role-and-ds-relationship-status/#comment-71</link>
		<dc:creator>Angel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2008 19:51:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://sexualdeviants20.com/2008/03/21/small-changes-to-gender-role-and-ds-relationship-status/#comment-71</guid>
		<description>&lt;p&gt;Hi John,&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I'd like to make a suggestion for the D/s Relationship Status section. How about an option not to have to choose any? This way, if someone might prefer to reveal the info on an individual basis, they have the discretion to do so.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Maybe this sounds silly...since being here means we want to reveal info about ourselves.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;But I am a big fan of discretion, you could say.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Thanks,
Angel&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi John,</p>

<p>I&#8217;d like to make a suggestion for the D/s Relationship Status section. How about an option not to have to choose any? This way, if someone might prefer to reveal the info on an individual basis, they have the discretion to do so.</p>

<p>Maybe this sounds silly&#8230;since being here means we want to reveal info about ourselves.</p>

<p>But I am a big fan of discretion, you could say.</p>

<p>Thanks,
Angel</p>]]></content:encoded>
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