Just finished playing around with my sexual orientation…
For the record, I do not drink coffee, I do not even know what it tastes like. I was just born with way too much energy!
After a really great conversation with DevotedPhoenix, to be read she was the teacher and I the very studious student, she convinced me that I really need to re-think the choices we give kinksters or their gender, role (sexually) and sexual orientation.
I felt the easiest one to do first was sexual orientation. Here is the original list we had:
- Straight
- Bisexual
- Bi-curious
- Gay
- Pansexual
- Trisexual
And this is our new list of sexual orientations that you can choose from that went online a couple minutes ago:
- Straight
- Heteroflexible
- Bisexual
- Gay
- Lesbian
- Queer
- Pansexual
John, get to the point, what changed:
Added Hetroflexible I love the term heteroflexible. There are the more official definitions of heteroflexible but I prefer the way I explain it. Heteroflexible to me is someone who will only date, marry and get into emotional relationships with someone of the opposite sex but if a someone of the same sex wants to give them head they won’t discriminate. Ok, it is more complicated then that but you get my drift.
Removed Bi-curious Bi-curious… what is bi-curious? Have you tried it or not? Bi-curious is less of what you are and more of a call out to tell people you want to experiment. Bi-curious, to me, is just a weird term. When I was 13 I was straight, was I ever with a girl? No. But I was straight because that is what best described how I was attracted to people. Put what you feel you are and not what you want to try for your sexual orientation. open for debate
Added Lesbian and Queer What can I say about this one other then I am sorry. I should of known better. In my life I have had a lot of gay male friends but never any lesbians or queer friends so I guess I just could not relate because of my limited life experiences. I hope to fix this though!
Removed Trisexual I had a choice and I made it. I decided to be correct instead of funny! One of the very few times I will choose correct over funny!
So what does everyone think? Log-in to your account and change your status!
Also, a big thank you to TwistedA and BlackOrchid for introducing me to the term Heteroflexible.
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I think your rationale for removing ‘bi-curious’ is solid.
It seems to me a sort of a transitional label, not something that someone would use to identify with for their entire adult life. I mean, can you just hear the grand kids of a ‘bi-curious’ old man saying, “do you think grandpa is ever gonna get it on with a guy?”
Thanks again for all your hard work on this site. And for being so open to suggestions like this! I’ve already updated my orientation to ‘Heteroflexible’ :)
Cheers, A