The Aspect I Hate The Most About My Job!
And I was hoping to not have to deal with this aspect of my job for at least another couple of weeks… but unfortunately I was not so lucky!
One of the most important parts of my job is to protect everyone on FetLife from the bullshit and assholes we sometimes come across on the internet. I have to admit the assholes are far and few between but all it takes is a couple rotten eggs to ruin the experience for everyone.
A new friend of mine I meet through FetLife forwarded me a message she received from a guy on FetLife that really disturbed both her and I. At first I was like, maybe the guy was having a bad day and I will send him a polite “please don’t do this again” email. But after doing 5 minutes of research I found out this guy sent the same disturbing message to 34 different women. Now that upset me!
It upset me because I felt like I was doing a bad job at protecting everyone from the .01% of the population that does not know the difference between play and being a jerk face.
So what did I do about this person after doing my research. I saved all the information I have on him including his IP address. I deleted his account and everything to do with him and I sent him a polite message explaining that I am sorry but I had no choice but to suspend him from FetLife and delete his account.
In the email I explained exactly why I made the decision to delete his account and I also told him that he is more then welcome to email me if he wants me to listen to his side of the story. But if he goes and creates another account and does the same thing all over again I will forward all the information I have on him including what he has sent to members of FetLife both to his ISP and to the local authorities.
You might think this is extreme but you had to see what this guy was saying and what he was portraying himself as. It was unethical and really scary!
Why am I telling all of you out their about this is because I want you to know I take this shit seriously and if anyone sends you anything you feel that makes you feel uncomfortable please don’t hesitate to forward it to me… you might not be the only that is being rubbed the wrong way by that user!
Together, as one, we will beat these jerk faces down! (My new favorite expression… jerk faces… LOL)
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Thanks so much for looking out for us. i feel like it is a little safer to play online here now, (and no less than i would expect from a good Dom ;)
Hi John, thanks for going to the effort on behalf of the community’. I had a particularly vulgar letter on Xmas Eve, that caused me to have the same reaction ( nothing to do with your site), but underlying tones of a sinister and disturbed person. I have another new word for you to describe these occasional creatures..”JIZZRAG”..say it out loud, its fun! Be well Petra
Jizz Rag… I love it! I prefer it as two words because it is easier to read but I love it. Jizz Rag and Jerk Face. Two things you never want to be called! :-)
Thanks John, You did the right thing, at least the JizzRags will learn that they need to go elsewhere to get their thrills! Winks at Petra Great work..I love it!
ummm…I meant great WORD..not work! #@$!#$! stupid keyboard!
lol… I call them fucktards…